August 27, 2004
Hanging In There
Just a quick note to say that me and Megumi are both doing OK. Yesterday, we both went and had long-needed haircuts. Megumi's was somewhat more drastic than mine, but if you see us, please tell us how lovely our smart new hairdos are!
We all lit incense for Rosie last night, as it was the 7th day since she died. Apparently, the smell of the incense helps spirits find the way to heaven easier. I don't think she will have much trouble finding heaven, with or without the incense, but it is comforting to feel like we are able to do something to ease her transition into the next life.
We went out around the town today with my parents. As you can imagine, seeing other little children is really tough, but we have each other to hold onto, and having my folks here has been nice. They are helping us to get through the painful times.
Again, a huge, huge, huge thanks to all of you for your kindness. We will never forget how well you have treated us. We don't deserve family and friends like you guys.
G + M
(Thanks Steve, Mark, Will for your posts.)
G + M, my grandparents on my mother's side lost an infant in the post-war timeframe. We visit her grave annually. She is not forgotten, many decades later. I wish you both strength and love.
-- Gen
Hello Gary and Megumi,
My heart goes out to both of you. Please stay strong in these hard times. My prayers are with the you and Rosie.
Dave
Posted by: Dave at August 27, 2004 09:52 PMAt times like these I know little words can mean a lot. I have only just come across your blog and you constantly show great strength and love. You will both find the truth.
xxx
Posted by: Giraffe at August 28, 2004 10:12 AMGary and Megumi,
I hope that you are holding strong together.
I cannot even begin to imagine your pain, but I truly feel for your situation. I am also a kent lad married to a japanese lass.
I've visited Japan 7 times over the past two years and I really hope that this will make you both stronger.
Much love once again,
Jom
Rosie has touched hearts in our relationship too.
We never knew you or her, but will always remember her as if we did.
love
Posted by: jom at August 31, 2004 06:48 AM